Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Ask Annie: What About Married Men?

A huge elephant in the sex worker's room, is the married man.

Wives have many perspectives on sex workers.

Some fear we are trying to steal their husbands.

Some consider us to be traitors - having sexual experiences with THEIR men. 

Some view us as sexual helpers, helping to spice things up. Our services are gifts for their husbands' birthdays.

Others don't want to know about us, but secretly hope their husbands would "just go to a sex worker," so they don't have to perform their wifely duties.

Some are sick or have lost all interest in sex and encourage their husbands to get their needs met through us.

I could go on, but you see what I'm saying. 

Sex Workers are not always viewed as "husband-stealing whores," but generally speaking, that is how we are stereotyped by mainstream society. 

As a sex worker, I have my own perspective.

I don't see my work as harming marriages.

The vast majority of my married clients absolutely LOVE their wives.

But they have been in no sex marriages for years!

Years of not being touched! I can't even imagine. 

Humans need and deserve human connection. And skin-to-skin touch is the Cadillac of human connection.

The men I see who are married are starved for touch.

Often, a naked hug is more profound for them than the happy ending.

Being touched, caressed, teased, held, and treated with tenderness and care - this is what they are missing from their marriages.

Wives learn that if they touch their husbands, sex will be expected. Having little to no sex drive, they stop touching their husbands!

Meanwhile, both partners are now being deprived of intimate touch. It's a tragedy!

The need for human touch and intimate connection.

Some of the messages I receive from married men are heartbreaking.
"It’s been 3-years now since, through a medical condition, my wife lost all interest in sex."

"My wife is in a care home with advanced dementia. I help with her care and bath. She has a hard time even knowing who I am. I haven’t been touched in 4 years."

"I love my wife very much but we have not had sex in approximately 8 years and I don't expect we will ever have it again."
These men are not unhappy in their marriages. They do not want to leave their wives or have affairs.

They have the utmost love and respect for their wives and do not want to pressure them for sex.

However, they have a deep and fundamental need to be touched. 

They have come to the conclusion that if they do not seek the services of a sex worker like me, they will probably never be touched again.

I watched a Tedx Talk about this issue, in which the speaker says straight out, "Ladies, have sex with your husbands before someone else does."

Spread the LOVE!

I believe that sexual intimacy should be available to everyone.

For some, it is available through sex workers like me.

For men in no sex marriages, my services are a solution to staying married.

I don't have designs on these men. 

I will not phone them in the middle of the night or ask them to leave their wives.

I will not judge them for wanting to be touched but not wanting to hurt the loves of their lives.

I consider my services the same as a therapist, or a nurse. A hairdresser, or a mechanic.

I provide a service that my clients need.

I do not make a judgment call about why they do or don't need it.

But I have to admit, when a married man is starved for touch, my heart goes out to him.

He would rather be touched by the woman he loves, with whom he has pledged his life.

But circumstances led him to me. 

I am a professional who offers intimacy, connection, and touch.

I can fulfill those needs, so my married clients can go home to their wives with that heavy burden lifted.

They can know that they are still desirable. They can know they are still able to give pleasure. 

They are not in love with me. They don't contact me between appointments. 

They appreciate me and respect me, and I would say some of us are even friends.

But I do not replace their wives in any way.  

I have been the wife...

I know what it's like to be a wife with no sex drive.

A few years back when I was very ill and married; I encouraged my husband to seek a sex worker.

I told him I didn't want to hear or know about it, but that I would not consider it cheating.

I have no idea if he used that opportunity or not. I hope he did.

One thing being a sex worker has taught me is that "no man is an island." They are human beings who need and desire human connection.

For some women who have lost their sex drive; being cuddled, held, and comforted is enough. 

Men, however, fulfill their intimacy needs through sexual connection.


When people ask me, "But don't you think it's wrong for married men to see sex workers?"

My answer is honest and I mean it.

No, I do not think it is wrong.

It's wrong for a spouse to withhold sex and expect their partner to rarely or never be touched again.

It's wrong for a spouse to carry on love relationships with two different people, while deceiving one or both.

But it is NOT wrong to be faithful in your heart and soul to your spouse, while also getting your intimacy needs met by a professional.

I see firsthand how important sexual connection is for emotional and mental health.

For that reason, I feel it is an honour and privilege to be fulfilling this need for my clients. xo 

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Thursday, October 17, 2019

The Horny Hitchhiker

I know the dangers of hitchhiking.

I completely understand why I shouldn't get into cars alone with strangers.

But I have found myself without a ride at various times in my life and hitchhiking was my only option.

One day, I was traveling from Penticton to Kelowna.

My friends had dropped me off on the outskirts of town but they didn't want to drive me all the way.

I stuck out my thumb and within a few minutes, I got picked up.

The man who stopped for me was very respectful. He immediately gave me shit for hitchhiking (in a nice way). 

I thanked him for his concern and for stopping. 

We started chatting and really hit it off!

I started to wonder if he was married.

We had a good half hour or so together and our conversation was easy and constant.

There was definitely a connection growing between us.

But, I wondered, was his cock growing inside his pants too?

Because I was definitely getting hornier by the second!

I steered the conversation towards sex to find out if he was interested.

"Do you have a girlfriend, Darryl?"

"Not at the moment," he replied, smiling. "I am between girlfriends right now. How about you?"

This part was tricky. I didn't want him to think I was looking for a boyfriend.

"I don't have a boyfriend," I replied, "because I prefer being single. I mean, you don't need to be in a relationship to have sex, right?"

I knew I was being super obvious, but Darryl didn't let on whether he followed me or not.

"That's true," he said. "I find travelling a lot for work makes it difficult for me to have relationships."

"Of course, I know what you mean," I said. After all, I was a travelling stripper for years. "What do you do for work?"

"I do a few different things," he said, being evasive. "What do you do?"

"I give massages," I replied. "Many of my clients also find it hard to have relationships because they work so much."

Darryl started to look more interested. I could imagine what he was thinking. Probably wondering "what kind of massages" I give. LOL

"You could probably use my magic touch, Darryl," I said with a giggle.


Darryl finally really looked at me. I saw him check me out from head to toe.

"Well," he said. "What do you charge? I am staying at a hotel in Kelowna."

"Consider it payment for giving me a ride!" I said. Secretly I hoped it would become much more than a massage!

When we arrived at Darryl's hotel, he had a quick shower and laid down on the bed with his underwear on.

I'll have those off in no time, I thought.

Luckily I had my massage oil with me. 

I prepared by warming the oil and removing my jeans. I explained to Darryl that it's too difficult to give a good massage when I'm restricted by tight pants.

He didn't seem to mind.

I began massaging his back with long, strong strokes.

I leaned forward so my breasts "accidentally" caressed him. I was still clothed but my nipples hardened in reaction.

I was pretty worked up by the time I told him to turn over for his front massage.

"I apologize," he said. "I am a little aroused right now. It's been a while since I've had a woman's hands on me."

He self-consciously adjusted his erection.

"Please don't apologize," I replied. "I'm a little aroused myself. Do you mind if I sit over you while I massage your shoulders?"

"I don't mind at all," he said.

I climbed onto him, with my pussy hovering above his cock - both of us still wearing our underwear.

I began massaging his chest and shoulders, waiting for him to make a move but he didn't!

Finally, I couldn't take it anymore. I kissed him.

I leaned my body fully on him, and I kissed him. Mouth to mouth. Chest to chest. Cock to pussy.

He didn't resist me at all! 

Our tender kiss turned into a passionate hunger for each other.

He pulled my shirt off and I unhooked my bra, tossing it on the floor.

Then I pulled his boxers down exposing his hard, throbbing cock. 

My arousal was so intense, it was all I could do not to jump on him right then.

But first I wanted to taste him.

I lowered my mouth onto his cock, never taking my eyes away from his.

He watched me with an intensity that drove me wild!

Now that his cock was slippery from my mouth, I wasted no time.

I climbed over him again and slowly slid myself onto him.

The feeling as his cock entered my pussy was incredible. Goosebumps covered my skin and my breathing became ragged.

At first I rode him slowly, feeling the full sensations of every thrust. 

But as our excitement grew, our lovemaking became more urgent.

I rocked my hips hard against him till I came loudly and thoroughly.

"You are so fucking sexy," he exclaimed. Then he encouraged me to come again.

The second orgasm came faster than the first.

Barely coherent, I slid off of him and got on my hands and knees.

He entered me from behind, whispering flattering things to me and telling me how glad he was that he met me.

He fucked me gently and exquisitely, savouring every sensation.

I kept expecting him to increase his speed and thrusts but he didn't.

He slowly and tenderly pushed his cock in and out of my pussy until his tension built to a breaking point.

With a shudder and a groan, Darryl pulled his cock out and came all over my ass. 

Afterwards, he gently cleaned me up and lied next to me on the bed.

"That was the best massage I've ever gotten," he said.

"You're welcome," I replied.

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DISCLAIMER: All my stories are fiction from my horny imagination. Sex stories do not imply full service offerings in my massage practice.

Saturday, October 12, 2019

October Photo Shoot!

Happy Thanksgiving, Fellas!

I'm thankful for all of you. XOXO

I hope you're thankful for sexy lingerie!

I love getting sexy photos taken!

Here are my latest photos from Jonny Ray.

I hope you like them!

I fell in love with this bodysuit at La Senza.

Jonny, my photographer, loves this pose!

I'm giving you my "come hither" look.
Doesn't this photo say...Tough Bitch? LOL

Does this make you want my hands on you?

How about this? ;)

Well, what do you think?

Would you like my hands on your back, chest, cock?

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Sunday, October 6, 2019

Ask Annie: Ten Things I Love Most About My Clients

I am grateful for my regulars.

Truly and sincerely grateful.

You guys make my life so special and beautiful.

As a tribute to the amazing men in my life, I'm dedicating this post to my favourite clients.

Here are the ten things I love most about you. 

1. You Treat Me With Respect

You take the time to send me well thought out, respectful messages when first contacting me.

2. You Treat Me with Kindness

You look at me as a human being... a woman who deserves tenderness and kindness.

3. You Are Generous

You show your appreciation with a little extra... attention, money, gifts.

4. You Care About My Pleasure 

Your hands on my body and your sincere desire to please me makes me feel incredible.

5. You Smell Good

You clean yourself well and use the mouthwash I provide.

6. You Send Me Sweet Messages

You think about me in your spare time and send me sexy little messages to let me know I'm on your mind.

7. You Are Gentle With Your Fingers

You take care not to rub my clit too hard or push into my precious parts too aggressively.

8. You Are Gentle With Your Mouth

You don't hurt me when licking and sucking my nipples... only drive me wild with pleasure!

9. You Tell Me I'm Beautiful

You make me feel sexy and appreciated with your compliments and naughty declarations.

10. You Care About Me

You want me to be comfortable and happy in your presence. You hope that I am well and wish the best for me and my family. 

For all of these things and more, I want to say THANK YOU!

You know who you are. XOXO

PS. Next week I'm posting sexy new lingerie photos! 

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