Sunday, February 23, 2020

February Photo Shoot



So much to tell you and it's all because you matter to me!

I have some exciting news to share, a new survey, and my MOST RECENT PHOTO SHOOT!

First of all, I'm slowly coming out of the closet with showing my face.

I have fears about how my work could be used against me or my children; that is very true. 

However, I don't feel like I'm living an authentic life by hiding a big part of who I am and how I fit into the world.

Since my Justfor.fans page accounts for one of my main business activities now, and my face (and everything else) is visible to subscribers on that page...

...and because I feel that by showing my face, it will increase my odds of luring unsuspecting horny men to my fan account... (LOL)

...and because I really want my fan account to be successful and potentially a main income earner as I get older...

(Yes, I'm getting older and I have my retirement to think about.)

...and because I have a family to provide for and so many dreams for my children and future grandchildren...

...and because I am a loud and proud activist for sex worker rights which makes it likely I will eventually be outed anyhow...

...I have begun to be more open with friends about my work. And I've begun to peel back the layers online too.

To that end, my photos this week are pixelated, rather than blurred. 

You can get a very good sense of what I look like if you've never booked with me before.

February 2020 Photo Shoot with Jonny Ray

Do you like my new hairstyle?











Want to hear a funny story?

When I bought this new lingerie set, I could only find crotchless panties to match the bra (and I loved the bra!).

But by the time the photo shoot rolled around, I had forgotten the panties were crotchless! 

Imagine my surprise when I saw the proofs and realized my pussy is peeking out in a number of photos! HA!







I hope you enjoyed my February Photo Shoot!

HUGE WIN FOR SEX WORKERS AND CLIENTS!

On Friday, February 21, 2020, an Ontario couple won a case in which they challenged the laws that resulted in their charges.

From reading the news articles, it appears that the couple was running an escort agency.

They advertised, provided safety information to their workers, and provided security measures for their workers.

They were charged in 2014 with human trafficking, procuring, profiting, and advertising sexual services.

The human trafficking charges were dropped because DUH! They weren't human trafficking!

The other charges are ridiculous because they are based on the new laws put in place by the CONS after the previous sex work laws were struck down.

We all know the new laws are in many ways WORSE than the original laws that were struck down.

Like the rest of us, Tiffany Harvey and Hamad Anwar of Fantasy World Escorts knew when they were charged that the laws are unconstitutional.

So they bravely challenged the laws! BRAVO!

We are lucky in BC because our police don't enforce the sex work laws. They investigate based on complaints which has led to an increase in sex workers reporting crimes against them.

But this case has set a precedent. It is not binding in other provinces but it is a step in the right direction.

Susan Davis explains what this means for sex workers and clients across Canada in this article from The Naked Truth: https://nakedtruth.cc/blog/ontario-ruling-glimmer-hope

Ultimately, we will again challenge the laws and have them struck down again. 

The tide of public opinion seems to be shifting away from the exploited whore to the empowered labourer.

Hallelujah!

To read more about this landmark decision, check out these articles...

Canada’s anti-prostitution laws are declared unconstitutional in Ontario lower court decision.

"Today, an Ontario judge struck down the advertising ban, concluding it wasn't a reasonable limit on the constitutional right to freedom of expression."

“Justice McKay . . . realized the dangers that exist and, indeed, are inherent in sex work, and the legislation the Harper government brought in increased their dangers and gave them no chance to properly protect themselves,” said James Lockyer, Anwar’s defence lawyer, after the decision was released.”

“The Crown argued that sex work cannot be made safe and says the legislation is constitutional.”

“Parliament has the power to regulate against nuisances, but not at the cost of the health, safety and lives of prostitutes. It is not a crime in Canada to sell sex for money,” Chief Justice Beverley McLachlin wrote in the 2013 ruling.
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-ontario-court-set-to-rule-on-constitutionality-of-canadas/


THANK YOU, GENTLEMEN! I hope you have a great week!

Love Annie xoxo

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Sunday, February 16, 2020

The Younger Man Who Made Me Tremble With Desire


I walked past him everyday on my way to grab my morning coffee.

He was working at a construction site near my home.

I couldn't help but notice him right away, and started looking for him every time I went by.

He would catch my eye, nod and smile, my heart would skip a beat, then I would keep walking.

Until one day...

But first... I have one other thing to tell you! 


My regulars especially should know that I've changed my hairstyle.

I hope you like it!




Next week, I will share new photos from my most recent photo shoot featuring my new hairstyle!

It's super sexy and I know you'll love the photos. xoxo

Now back to my story...

Every day, as I walked past the construction site, if I could get his attention, I'd send the little hottie eye signals. "Come fuck me" Eyes...

He was at least a decade younger than me, maybe more!

But I couldn't help it. We had chemistry from a distance!

One day, as I walked past, I found myself face-to-face with my sexy, young crush.

He was standing on the street beside a parked truck; drinking out of a water bottle.

I slowed my walking as I approached, hoping he'd talk to me.

He looked at me, smiled and nodded. I smiled and nodded back.

I was almost past him when he said, "I can't let you walk by without asking your name."

I turned around. 

"Annie," I replied.

"Well, hello Annie," he said. "My name is Mason."

"Hi Mason... you're really fucking cute," I said, smiling.

He laughed. "Thank you. And you are very beautiful. Is that your building over there?"

"Yes, I work out of that building."

He raised his eyebrows but was polite enough not to ask.

"It's great except my bedroom door is starting to scrape on the floor and wedge in the door frame," I said. "Any suggestions?"

"Certainly," he replied. "I suggest you have me come by after work and fix that for you."

"That would be incredible," I said; heat rushing to my pussy.

I gave him my buzzer number and went on my way.

I literally couldn't wait to get back to my apartment so I could masturbate in anticipation of his visit.


Later that afternoon, I was ready and waiting. I'd shaved, put on perfume, set the mood lighting, and turned on some sexy music.

The sexy music wasn't the only thing turned on!

When Mason arrived, we greeted each other awkwardly at the door.

"It smells nice in here," he said.

I showed him the door that needed repairs and he went straight to work.

In the meantime, I offered him a coffee. By the time it was brewed, he had already fixed my door.

I handed him the coffee and he said, "Would it be possible to have a quick shower before I drink this?"

Now I knew we were on the same page!

"Be my guest," I replied.

Mason showered and came out wearing only a towel.

Wow, I thought. This guy is confident. LOL He had no doubt about what's about to go down.

We drank our coffees, chatting amicably. Then I excused myself to use the washroom (where I freshened up with mouthwash and a hot cloth on my private parts).

Mason was washing our cups in the kitchen when I returned. I walked over to him, my pussy buzzing with excitement.

He turned to me, reached up for my face and kissed me.


I ran my hands over his bare chest and pulled his towel open, dropping it to the floor.

His cock was standing hard, tall, and at attention.

I pushed my body against his as our kiss deepened.

Mason gripped my ass and pulled me close but I am too short for him, so he picked me up and carried me to a chair in the living room where he sat down placing me on his lap.

I wiggled closer so I could press myself against his cock as our hands roamed over each other's bodies and our tongues roamed inside each other's mouths.

Our attraction was strong and urgent. Foreplay wasn't required.

But we lingered with our kisses and teasing anyhow, enjoying it... not wanting it to end.

Mason's hard cock never faltered, and I remembered how young he was. I wondered, will this end quickly?

But for such a young man, Mason was a skilled and in-control lover.

I went down on him to get his cock all nice and wet. I let the shaft and head of his cock caress my lips and felt my pussy getting wetter too.


Mounting Mason on the chair, I tried to slide onto his cock slowly. But he embraced my hips, took my mouth with his again, and thrust  his cock fast and deep inside me.

That is not normally a good idea, guys. Usually a woman needs more foreplay and working into the full, deep thrusts. 

But in this case, I was already ready. The sensation of his cock entering me so fully and quickly, throbbing inside me so magnificently...

Ahhh, there are no words. Let's just say, my nipples hardened considerably.

My body has a mind of its own and desire took over.

I started rotating my hips on his cock, grinding my clit against him. I was close to coming before I even started.

"Your cock feels so good inside me, Mason!" I exclaimed, breathlessly. "So fucking good!"

"Oh Annie," he said. "Your pussy is so perfect. I've always wanted to fuck an older woman. You're so fucking sexy!"

I love compliments and needless to say, that's all it took to send me over the edge. I came hard on his cock, shuddering and mindlessly grinding against him till the waves of pleasure subsided.

Mason kept repeating, "You're so fucking beautiful. You're so fucking sexy," over and over again.

It was intoxicating to be worshiped like that!

Mason clung to me and I to him, still both so incredibly aroused. 

"Come to the bedroom," I said. "I want to watch you fuck me in the mirrors."

Mason's interest was piqued. "Mirrors?"

We went to the bedroom where I usually give massages and I retrieved a condom from the bedside table. I know, I should have done that already!

After putting the condom on him, I laid back on the bed, inviting Mason to fuck me missionary.

Yeah, yeah, missionary is boring, so some people say. But I like it, so fuck you! LOLOL

I love missionary because I can admire my lover as he pumps his cock into my pussy.

I can play with his nipples. I can kiss him.

I like to hook my legs and put a pillow under my ass (because I'm short).

The easiest way for me to come during sex is when I am on top. But the second easiest way for me to come is missionary.

I came three more times with Mason.

And I think I was probably quite vocal about it too. Umm, yes. I was. I definitely was. *blushes*



As my final orgasm overcame me, Mason informed me he was going to come too.

I LOVE it when someone tells me they're going to come!

I don't know why, but it increases my horniness hearing those words!

My orgasm exploded and Mason exploded at the same time. 

He fucked me so hard those last few thrusts; each one carrying my orgasm further so that it lasted several seconds.

Poor Mason had to get dressed back in his work clothes. But he promised "next time" he'd be more prepared.

I got excited thinking about next time.

I am a horny girl with a naughty imagination. 

I often start thinking about "next time" with clients before they've even left when the session has been particularly fun. ;)

Mason and I had a whirlwind romance. We never went out on a date. 

Our special bond was incredible sex.

We did it often over the next few months while he worked on my street, but then he was off to a new job, and our fling ended.

But whenever I have a young, sexy client, I think of Mason. And I get really, fucking horny.

(Please see the disclaimer at the bottom of this article.)

Did you like my story? 

Ironically, I had a new client last week who works in construction and is a decade younger than me.

He sent me this lovely text after our session. I feel so happy when I make my clients happy!


Thank you so much for your kind words!

Until next time...

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DISCLAIMER: All my stories are fiction from my horny imagination. Sex stories do not imply full service offerings in my massage practice. 

Sunday, February 9, 2020

Ask Annie: Living a Triple Life


Most sex workers lead a double life.

They hide their sex work from most of the people they know.

Like them, I also hide my sex work from most of the people in my daily life.

Unlike most of them, I have THREE identities to  maintain.

One is Hallelujah Annie, of course. Your friendly, neighbourhood massage goddess!

Then there is my square life identity where I am mostly called "Mom." 

But I also have a third identity. Annie, the former stripper who is an activist for sex worker's rights.


2006

All my family and friends know about that Annie.

She came out of the closet years ago.

But stripping carries much less stigma than contact sex work. 

I have felt the need to keep my massage work to myself and a select few people I trust.

However, I am not ashamed of what I do. 

I wish I could be completely out of the closet about all my work.

Unfortunately, that would affect my children.

I've learned from experience that parents don't want their kids hanging out with the kids of sex workers.

It doesn't matter that I am the most normal mom you could meet!

Well, maybe not normal. I mean... I am the coolest, most easy-going, loving, interactive mom I can possibly be! 

Friends of my children often say they wish they had parents like me. And my kids are truly incredible people who are kicking ass at life.

And yet, if their friend's parents knew about my work, my kids would be ostracized.

I often volunteer for organizations and clubs that I belong to.

But I always wonder... would they nominate me for this position if they knew what I do for work? Will they ask me to step down if they find out?


About 10 years ago, overnight, my face appeared on the front pages of newspapers and was blasted across the Internet when a prominent cancer organization refused to accept a donation from a fundraiser I organized.

In a matter of 24 hours, all my kid's friend's parents knew that I was a stripper.

Their teachers knew. Their Principal knew. All my family members that my parents had tried to hide it from found out too.

It was INSANE!

Showing up at my daughter's elementary school that day was...awkward. 

I was also the head of one of the parent committees. Teachers who had previously laughed and joked with me, now ignored me.

A LOT of people went out of their way to show me that they accepted me and did not judge. But some never looked me in the eye again.

I didn't take it personally. Most people have been brainwashed to view sex as dirty and deviant.

I feel sorry for those people.

My sex life is amazing precisely because I'm not a prude.

But I digress...

Living a triple life can be anxiety-provoking sometimes.

Did you know that there are guys on the Internet who will figure out sex worker's real names and then threaten to expose them to their families if they don't send explicit nudes?

They come up with all kinds of extortion. 

I will never let an Internet predator, or anyone else for that matter, extort me. No one will have that kind of power over me. Ever. 

Do your worst, shithead. You're getting nothing from me.

I've known several sex workers who were outed to their landlords, family, and others, by jealous exes. 

Is that low or what?! I have zero respect for people who try to destroy other people's lives. I hope karma gets them real good!



A funny part of living a triple life is that I try to limit my lies as much as possible.

When people ask what I do for a living, I say "Massage."

Every once in awhile, one of my guy friends will book a massage.

I keep a massage table in my studio just for this reason.

I also charge higher rates than most legit massage providers (as a deterrent from people I know booking with me).

But every once in awhile, one of them pays the big bucks to get a massage from me.

When I get them naked on the table, I have to stay present the whole time and remind myself not to play with their nipples or reach out and grab their cocks!

If I let my mind wonder a little, my hands have a mind of their own!

I also worry about how far up the thigh I should be massaging and whether I should have them turn over!

Go ahead, laugh at me. It makes me laugh too. xo


I think the hardest thing about keeping my work private is knowing how it would affect the people I love if I'm outed.

My kids. Would their dad make a scene? My partner. Would his family be shocked and outraged?

I wish our society wasn't so uptight about sex.

I wish sex workers could provide our healing services without any need to conceal our work.

I wish people could see the value in what I do, rather than judge me and condemn me.

One day, maybe our western society will be different. Not every country is as uptight and fucked up around sex as ours.

In the meantime, I'll be Massage Annie, Activist Annie, and Mom. All separate but the same.

These aren't pieces of myself. They are all fully me. One doesn't preclude the other. 

All of me, in my various roles, with my various responsibilities.

Three identities, one grateful human. 

Thank you for subscribing to my blog. xoxo

Love Annie 



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Saturday, February 1, 2020

"Tell Me About You" Survey Results and Other Naughtiness



The results are in and they are very naughty!

I closed the survey last Thursday night with 65 respondents!

THANK YOU SO MUCH!

I absolutely love compiling survey data like this.

It makes me so horny!

You will see why as you read through the results!



"Tell Me About You" 
SURVEY RESULTS

Thank you to all 65 of you who took time out of your day to share private details of your sex life (anonymously, of course!)

The results, as you'll see, are FUCKING FASCINATING!


I love learning about my current and potential clients.

You are fascinating fuckers! ;)

I absolutely love you and appreciate the time and care many of you took to respond to my survey.

Here are the results.

How old are you?

Of the 65 respondents who answered my survey, 85% of you are between the ages of 35 and 64.

Only 10% are under 35. And only 5% are 65 or older.

I love you all equally, as long as you are sweet, respectful, clean, and gentle! XOXOXO

What is your marital status?

65% of respondents are married or in common law relationships.

The next highest group are single guys weighing in at 21%.

The rest are dating, in relationships, widowed, and divorced. 

One lovely gentleman is separated from his wife by dementia. She lives in a care home now.




What are you views on monogamy?

This is where things start to get really interesting.

Quantitatively, those of you who prefer monogamy and those who prefer an open relationship were divided almost equally.

Prefer Monogamy - 37%
Prefer Open Relationship - 43%
Prefer Being Single & Playing the Field - 10%

However, it gets murky in the comments.

In many cases, you don't want to ask your partners for intimate moments very often because you feel like you are pressuring them.

One gentlemen wisely said he feels that his marriage is stronger because he's getting certain needs met by his chosen professional.

"I think the occasional, non-emotional release can be healthy for me in maintaining a long term relationship."

Many of you prefer monogamy but go to sex workers for needs that aren't being met at home.

"Hard question, I just said I prefer monogamy but here I am seeking a sensual massage. While I love my marriage, I still feel sad and at a loss without a physical relationship where I can please a woman and be pleased. So I guess I'm open as well. I'll think more about this... kind of stuck for words."


I can kind of relate to the gentleman above.

I consider myself and my partner to be monogamous and yet we both have sexual experiences outside our relationship.

I don't really feel that we are in an open relationship either.


For instance, I wouldn't just pick up two guys in Starbucks and fuck them behind my guy's back, or tell him later.


We trust that we can allow each other these experiences without it interfering in what we have.

Also, we fulfill our desires with others always in a professional capacity as an exchange of money for services. 

I am both a provider and a client.

Maybe that is why I feel like we are monogamous?

I don't know...


Perhaps that survey question was unfair.




What is your main reason for accessing the services of sex workers?


Well, guys, I have to say...

You are complex, interesting, caring, and beautiful people. 

Here are some of your responses:

"My wife and I do not have sex much anymore. But I love my wife more than life itself."

"Loneliness."

"I believe that SW's are actually great marriage counselors. They allow a safe fantasy experience. I believe my relationship has actually become much stronger because of it."

"I enjoy a really good massage from an attractive, intelligent woman with a happy ending."

"Craving intimacy. Pleasing and being pleased by a sensual woman."

"Exploring my sexual curiosities, experiencing different partners, and dissatisfaction with the intimacy in my relationship."

"Fantasy play."

"Health has made my home life complicated and the serenity and professionalism given by Annie is second to none and allows me to be me and relaxed and things work that have not in ages." You are so sweet! XO

"Form of therapy and a confidence boast. The need for physical touch."

"Feeling wanted, sexually and to feel the touch of a woman without any baggage."

"To feel special."

"To access female contact that is uncomplicated, simply because it's lacking in my relationship."

"Company and friendship."

"A feeling of closeness, connection, and being valued."

"Seeking intimacy outside of my marriage. Although our marriage is okay in many other ways, we have not been intimate in a long time."

"My work takes me out of town much of the time. Most women want something more stable than I can provide. Also, I'm terribly shy."

"After being married for almost 20 years and having no other previous sexual experiences, it is important to me to experience all life has to offer before it’s too late. A cancer diagnosis a few years back may have played a part in this decision as well, but it was something on my mind prior to that as well."

"Many reasons. I like the thrill of meeting someone for a discreet, sexually-charged encounter; I need more sexual-related activity than what my partner needs; I love getting to meet and know another human being who works in an industry that fascinates me from a sociological perspective. With you in particular, I like your personality, your smarts, your charm and of course your skills, so I really like being with you." Awwww, thank you!!!

"I want to be able to do it while unlearning backward, puritanical ideas about sex."



If you have an amazing experience with a sex worker, do you refer your friends? Why or why not?

This question was qualitative, in that I provided a comment box for your answers, but I wanted a quantitative result when I summarized the survey...

So, I went through and counted all the answers.

Out of 61 respondents who have been to see a sex worker and answered this question...

41 of you said it is a private experience and you do not speak about it, never mind refer someone. How could I even suggest it! 

I found it SUPER interesting that many of you admitted you wouldn't refer your friends because you don't like to share!  Haha, I love it!

18 of you said you WOULD refer your friends to a sex worker you had a great time with.

And two of you said you would post a positive review if the provider was okay with it. Thank you for caring about your provider's feelings on the topic of reviews!

See what I mean?

You guys are truly remarkable, wonderful fellows. You care about us and it means a lot. xoxo

Where do you browse for sex worker services most?

Now, this part of the survey is totally skewed.

The reason it is skewed is because respondents found me through one particular site - Leolist.

It goes without saying that if you found me through Leolist, then you probably browse Leolist the most.

And my results, indeed, indicated that 71% of respondents use Leolist the most.

I feel that the results of this question are not a true indicator of where all gentlemen are browsing the most. So, I have decided to not count it.

Plus, Leolist makes me crazy!

Thank you for finding me on Leolist - please find me on Nakedlist.cc in the future! 



If you've ever gotten a massage from me, did you or would you return? Why or why not?

Many of the respondents haven't come to see me yet, but the ones who have had this to say...

"Yes...You are awesome."

"Of course time after time after time."

"Once and will return."

"I have had one massage, not sure if I made a connection, but would like to try more sessions."

"Yes I will."

"Yes and yes and will again as you're fabulous!"

"Yes, of course."

"Yes, I have and yes I will again. It was an amazing time."

"I would return for sure. I’m not rich but the experience was soooo wonderful and will get better next time."

"I would...I loved it. Only reason I haven't been back is time constraints."

"Absolutely, 100% would return. Would even be interested if you went ahead and offered toy shows as well."
(Hmmm, toy shows. What are those?!)

"Yes and yes. Loved the experience."

"I will put this as succinctly as I can... Hell, Yes! You are kind, warm, friendly, you have such a joyful spirit, your smile lights up the darkest night, you're beautiful, sexy, exciting."

"Of course I would."

"OH FUCK YEAH ! Have a crush on you. LOL."

"Yes, I have and I would. I enjoy communicating with you. It excites me to get a message from you. Brightens my day."

"I would return. It was a nice massage, loved the teasing, was super professional, and very nice."

"I have enjoyed many massages from you. I plan to come back for more."

In case some of you are wondering...

Yes, I take guesses at which ones of you wrote what. 

And I'll bet I'm pretty bang on! ;)

I know some of my regulars pretty well, if I do say so myself. 


And finally, do you have any suggestions for articles or stories you'd like me to write on my blog? 

I LOVED the answers to this question.

You gave me so many ideas for future articles and stories.

Here are some of my favourites. My responses are in red...

"Age related – like younger man with older woman." Sounds hot!

"A post about your best and worst experiences with clients. Your standpoint on seeing virgins. Have you ever taken someone's virginity?" Ooh, interesting! I've taken people's sensual massage virginity but only one boy's actual virginity in my life and I was a virgin too. ;)

"Talk about the experience I can expect in visiting you. Be detailed." There's a pretty good story here with some details. :) "The Hallelujah Annie Experience"

"After care of yourself and dealing with subtleties of guilt." Awww, it means so much that you worry about my mental health. I do need after care to ensure I don't burnout. It can be emotionally and physically demanding work. But I never feel guilty. Quite the contrary. I feel like I am giving a gift of pleasure. My work brings me a lot of joy and fulfillment.

"I know you write about encounters you’ve had (not sure if you are writing fiction or fact!) but I would just like to know what really turns you on!" Well, all of my stories ARE fiction, but there's some truth in every fabrication, isn't there? That, and I have a very horny imagination. I'm thinking an article about WHAT DRIVES ME WILD might be of interest to some of you?

"Whatever makes YOU horny!" Mmm hmm, I'll be definitely writing more horny articles and stories! PS. They all make me horny.

"Maybe explaining the 'laws' and some of the terms folks use in ads, etc." This is amazing! In all honesty, I'm still learning a lot of the terms used in ads. I usually google search it like this "FSSW sex work" to get the right slang definition. I would love to write about these subjects, thank you!

 
"You’ve been doing a great job with the stories. Some of my faves are those where you find yourself in a situation where you are attracted to the guy and are not afraid to make the first move." LOL! In real life, I am super shy and always wait for the guy to make a move. But I love to be the seducer in my stories.

"Love your articles, keep them coming...love to continue to hear your perspectives on this industry along with your clients..." Aww, thank you! I have lots more perspectives to share!

"Not really - you're a good writer and I enjoy reading your stories. I do have a curiousity about life as a sex industry worker - it would be interesting to me to hear more about what life is really like. But I love your fantasy stories too - so just keep doing what you're doing - you do it well." You are too sweet! It seems like you and few others would like to learn more about my industry and business. I will be sure to share lots more with you. Another great resource is Nakedtruth.cc . You can also subscribe to their articles which I help generate every week!

"Continued activism for ending the stigma around sex and all that it relates to." Fuck yeah! I love my clients!

And that concludes the results of my "Tell Me About You" Survey!


Thanks again for responding to my survey and for subscribing to my blog!


Love Annie xo



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Too Hot to Handle "Oral Pleasure" Story and Photos

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