Saturday, May 30, 2020

Ask Annie: My Best Asset?

Me having fun
with the mirror!

The sex industry allows providers to be all kinds of sexy.

For every client, there is a particular provider that just does it for them.

I have friends who are Dommes, Escorts, Webcam Performers, and more.

They are all shapes, sizes, and genders - and they are all popular as fuck!

What makes them succeed in this business?

What is their best asset?

I like to think my best assets that help me succeed in this business are:
  • Compassion
  • Intelligence
  • Drive
  • Tenderness
  • Honesty
  • Respect
  • Kindness, and a...
  • Positive Attitude

But I think most people, when referring to a provider's best assets, are talking about their physical characteristics.

Is there one physical part of your body that you always get compliments on?

I can (fortunately) say that I am complimented on many of my body parts.

I have been complimented for having:
  • nice, small breasts,
  • big, perky nipples,
  • a pretty smile,
  • "bedroom" eyes,
  • soft skin,
  • tasteful tattoos,
  • nice legs,
  • sexy feet, and even a...
  • beautiful pussy.
But the part of my body that I get THE MOST compliments on, is...


I've been getting compliments on my ass ever since I grew one (puberty).

I was a tomboy in high school, so most compliments on my ass came from boyfriends who saw me naked. I didn't really dress up to show off my body.

When I hit bar-hopping age I began wearing tight pants and other form-fitting outfits.

I soon learned I could use the shape of my ass to impress, tease, lure, and even capture men! (LOL)

At the age of 23, I started stripping.

I had been previously somewhat insecure about my small breasts, but exotic dancing changed that.

Yes, I had pressure from agents (and even some customers) to get my breasts enhanced.

But I never gave in to the pressure. 

Guys loved my pretty, perky, little breasts.

I always made good money hustling and was always asked back to venues I performed in.

Because others embraced my beauty just as it was, I was able to embrace my own beauty! 

I let go of my insecurities caused by popular media and became  proud of my tiny titties.

However, it was MY ASS that got the most attention. 

DJ's would invent titles like "Best Ass in the West" when I took the stage.

I was often told by strip club customers "I'm an ass man, not a breast man."

I always thought that "compliment" was bit insulting (towards my beautiful, little boobies). 

But I knew those men weren't trying to insult me. They couldn't help that all their blood was rushing to the wrong head!

Now, I'm in my 40's, and I've still got my little, perky breasts and my nice, round ass.

I also, still, get the most compliments on my ass.

Here are a couple selfie photos I took of my ass. What do you think? 

What do you think my best asset is?

Please send me an email or text and tell me how you really feel! 

What do YOU like best about me?

Love Annie

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Sunday, May 24, 2020

Gang Bang Covid 19 Exposure Party

This photo was censored on all my social media last week! LOL

You know how parents used to hold measles or chicken pox parties to expose their children to those viruses while they're young?

One of my favourite fantasies during this covid19 pandemic, is to imagine all my favourite clients coming over for an "exposure" party.

And by exposure, I mean NO ONE is wearing any clothes.

Certainly, I can't keep you all happy so I'll have to invite other women to the party, of course.

And those of you who go both ways will have plenty to choose from!

What better way to build herd immunity than to have an exposure party?!

Because this is a fantasy, and not real life, we don't need condoms and all sexual activities are on the table between consenting adults.

In my exposure party gang bang fantasy, I get to have sex with all my favourite clients, one after another while my boyfriend watches and touches himself.

(LOL, I hope he doesn't mind this fantasy!!!)

Most of my favourite clients know who you are, but there are also a few one-timers I've never seen again who were super sexy and they are also at the gang bang party.

It's all very informal. 

I am alone in a beautiful room with mood lighting and sexy music pounding. My boyfriend sits comfortably in a chair in the corner stroking his cock.

One at a time, each sexy gentleman invited to the party enters the room and makes love to me.

I'll leave the naughty bits up to your imagination...

But I will say that I have orgasms with every one of them and sometimes my boyfriend comes over and puts his cock in my mouth.

This fantasy makes me come over and over and over again.

If you're at my party, will you come into my room and fuck me? 

Who else will you play with? 

Do you enjoy sexual experiences with all genders?

Would you lick a pussy that got fucked by someone else in your fantasy? (remember it's a fantasy!)

Send me emails with all your naughty thoughts!

What is your idea of a really great covid19 gang bang exposure party?

A room full of naked women, rubbing their pussies all over you?

I know you have some naughty minds!

Please share your sexy thoughts with me. 

Love Annie

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Sunday, May 17, 2020

May 2020 Amateur Selfie Photo Shoot!

Hey guys!

I haven't been able to update my photos with a professional shoot since Covid-1984 began.

I've been hinting at doing an amateur selfie shoot.

Well, I finally did it!

Please do not critique my photos!

I know I am not a professional. I know I could have put more effort into lighting and background.

I know!

Also, keep in mind that these photos are taken without a professional makeup artist, no tan, and absolutely no editing! 

I used a phone tripod and a bluetooth remote to snap the shots. You can see the remote in some of my photos! *blushes*

I hope they make you horny. xoxox

Love Annie

Please send me a message IF YOU LIKE MY PHOTOS and I will do more amateur photo shoots in the future! XOXO

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Saturday, May 9, 2020

Rule Breaking, C*ck Sucking, Horny Bad Girl

I'm the kind of person who likes to break rules.

Ask any guy I've ever dated (or married)... There's no telling me what to do.

In fact, using reverse psychology (if you're very adept) is probably your best angle if you're trying to control me.

My whole being wants to do the exact opposite of what I'm told to do.

I view laws as optional whether I agree with them or not. 

For instance, I smoked weed long before it was legal. And if I'm honest, I don't always drive the speed limit.

I think it's funny to take photos of myself breaking rules, like smoking next to a "no smoking" sign.

And if a game is too encumbered by rules, I like to forego them. 

Maybe if I was a better ping pong player, I would follow the rules (but I doubt it).

In elementary school, my parents and teachers pressured me to "live up to my potential." 

It had the opposite effect of me losing interest in my schoolwork.

In highschool, I drove my '79 Honda Civic hatchback where no car had gone before... literally having to walk to the nearest house and use their phone to request a tow truck.

In university I became a feminist and, within a very short time, I broke the main rule of second wave feminism by becoming a stripper. (Andrea Dworkin, fuck you very much.)

Then I wrote all my feminist papers on being empowered by the sex industry. Yes, I like to follow themes in my rule breaking.

Numerous times I have signed myself out of the hospital against medical advice (because I actually know my body better than any doctor does).

I broke a family rule about hiding anything that makes us look bad when I came out in the media around the world as a stripper running a controversial charity event. (That's how my grandparents found out.)

Of course, I don't break "respect" rules. Like I don't intentionally cross boundaries or hurt people. I always respect people the best I can.

But I definitely break the rules.

With this whole lockdown, covid19 crisis - there are a lot of rules I'm tempted to break!

I refuse hand sanitizer because my skin reacts to it. And every time I refuse, I get a little rush for breaking the rule!

Like many of you, I've been doing a lot of masturbating during this lockdown and I've started contemplating all kinds of "rule breaking" fantasies.

Today, I'm going to share one of my covid19 lockdown, rule-breaking fantasies.

It gets me off and I hope it gets you off too!

My kind of mask.

This fantasy is about the masks.

I hate them.

I really fucking hate the masks. 

I'm sorry if that offends anyone. I really don't want to offend you but the masks trigger me and I avoid going into public as much as possible because of them.

I use this fantasy to make-believe I'm breaking the mask "rules." I think it helps me to mentally deal with our crazy new world.

It's very naughty...

Never in my life have I craved kissing and sucking cocks as much as I do right now in the new age of masks!

Obviously, I am not doing those things because well... masks. 

But as I touch myself, I have this recurring fantasy of going into public and it goes something like this...

I park in the grocery store lot and get out of my car. 

There is a long line-up of people standing two meters apart waiting to walk in the store.

Everyone has a mask on except me.

I smile at everyone because I'm very horny (of course, I'm touching myself while I imagine this so horniness is to be expected.)

I am hoping my smile encourages naughty flirting from others. A few gentlemen in the lineup crinkle their eyes at me indicating smiles behind their masks.

One of them in particular holds my attention. 

There is chemistry crackling in the air between us. I can't help but look at his crotch, imagining his cock is getting hard for me.

Finally it's my turn to go into the store. I refuse the hand sanitizer and get that little rule-breaking rush which goes straight to my pussy because... I'M HORNY.

Then I start shopping, keeping my eyes open for the hot guy.

So, this is where my fantasy can veer in one of two directions.

Either I find myself alone in an aisle with hot, line-up guy or I find myself alone in an aisle with a hot grocery store clerk.

Either way, he is wearing a mask and I am not.

Let's follow the store clerk storyline...

As often happens in grocery stores, there is an item on top of the shelf that I cannot reach (I'm only 5 feet tall).

I beseech the sexy, unsuspecting gentleman to please retrieve my item for me.

As he reaches up, I am concentrating on the item and don't realize that I accidentally on-purpose bump into him.

"Oops," I say. "Sorry! I should be social distancing."

"No worries," he replies. "I'm not afraid. They make me wear this mask."

I look him in the eyes then, to see if he's fucking with me. But he is sincere.

"Really?" I say, "That's so refreshing. I feel like we naturally need human contact. I totally disagree with this social distancing thing. I feel starved for touch, if I'm honest."

Now, the sexy man becomes uncomfortable.

He says, "Yes, it's a difficult time. Well, have a great day and if you need anything else, one of our staff can help you."

Before he can turn away, I say, "Well, actually, I was wondering if you have any gluten free bread in the back? I noticed the freezer was empty... I'm Celiac."

"Sure!" he replies and motions for me to follow him.

He disappears behind the curtain into the back then returns for me.

"I'm not sure which brand you prefer. How about you come back and pick it out yourself."

I follow him back behind the curtain to a very remote area of the store.

We both start looking through the pallets of bread and I accidentally on-purpose bump into him so that my body gently presses against his cock.

Yes! It's semi hard!

I turn then (accidentally on-purpose) so that my ass grazes his semi hard cock, and I stumble because it's an awkward move.

We bump into each other and I almost fall.

He also reaches out to steady me (what a gentleman!).

We find ourselves holding onto each other and looking into each other's eyes.

He leans down towards my face but we can't kiss because he's wearing a mask. We rub cheeks instead, and for some reason it is extremely sensual.

Now, I'm REALLY aroused!

I lose my composure at this point. 

I reach up and pull back his mask and break a very big rule in the age of masks.

I kiss the fuck out of him.

Sexy grocery clerk dude responds very warmly to my kiss; kissing the fuck out of me back.

(I spend some time exploring this "masturbation, fantasy kiss" for quite awhile because it's so forbidden, which is a HUGE TURN ON FOR ME!)

When the kiss stops, I look into his eyes again.

"Sorry," I say. "I couldn't help it."

"It's okay," he replies. "I liked it."

"I heard that covid19 is spread through semen," I tell him.

He nods, unsure what I'm getting at.

I reach down and unzip his pants.

Continuing to look in his eyes, I slowly lower myself to my knees.

I rub his cock through his pants and I can tell it is very hard already.

It takes some effort to release his throbbing cock from his underwear and pants, but I am equal to the task.

Now, I take his cock in my mouth, and... this is important... I taste his sweet pre-cum. 

Did you know pre-cum is sweet?

It tastes different than the full load. Seriously! 

In real life, I don't think I give very good blow jobs, but in my fantasy I am the blow job queen!

I suck that cock like the most amazing porn actress you've ever seen!

I savour the feel of it in my mouth.

He is very excited, naturally. And after awhile he pulls me up away from his cock, leans me over the produce on the other side of the aisle...

...with the smell of strawberries filling the air, he fucks me till we both come over and over.

Well, I come over and over, but he hasn't learned about male multiple orgasms yet. So, he doesn't come until I'm done. ;)

The whole fuck includes a lot of kissing and covid19 rule breaking. I love that condoms are not needed in fantasies (don't you?).

He explodes inside me and we cling to each other. Lips to lips. Pussy to dick.

Afterwards, I buy the smashed, covid-exposed strawberries. I know my boyfriend will eat them off my body later. (He's a kinky man, thank Goddess.)

My fantasy really only ends when I'm ready to stop masturbating. 

Usually at least three orgasms. Sometimes up to 7. That's on average how many "O"'s I have before I tuck my vibrator back in the drawer.

Sometimes I carry it in my purse in case I want to masturbate at work. (I have no idea why I just told you that, lol.)

That's just ONE of my rule-breaking, covid19 fantasies.

Am I the only one?

Have you had similar fantasies about saying FUCK COVID and SOCIAL DISTANCING... I just want cocks in my mouth!

Oh, wait. Most of you are probably very hetero, so cocks in your mouth might not be your thing. But you know what I'm saying, right?

"Cocks in my mouth" stands for so much more, doesn't it? 

It stands for breaking rules and giving into primal desires. 

It stands for human contact in one of the most intimate ways human contact can transpire.


I hope you enjoyed my naughty story. I would love to hear what you think of this fantasy. 

Too naughty? Is the covid19 lockdown too taboo to talk about this way?

Or just naughty enough? Did I make your cock hard reading it?

And especially, if you have these types of fantasies, I want to hear about them! 

I will work them into my masturbation sessions.

Your cock, my fantasy. 
Love Annie 

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Sunday, May 3, 2020

When A Client Is A Predator

Hello Gentlemen!

I apologize in advance for covering a serious topic today.

I will share later in the article the reason I feel it is necessary to write about this.

Today, I want to talk about safety between clients and sex workers.

It is an interesting dance between us, isn't it?

There are amazing clients and amazing sex workers. 

And there are horrible clients and horrible sex workers.

There are many in between.

Clients worry about getting robbed or "catfished," as one potential client warned me about.

How do you know if a sex worker is being honest about what they're advertising?

Conversely, how can I know if you're going to become embarrassed or angry during our session and attack me? 

The truth is, we can't really know for sure.

But there are things we can do, of course.

Screening Sex Workers

If you are worried about being "catfished" or robbed, you can do a little research before booking with a provider.

  • Does their ad look professional? Is it well-worded, to-the-point, and answers the most important questions?
  • Do they have a website?
  • If there is a website, does it look like they have put some effort into the messaging and images?
  • Do they have a social media presence? What kind of things do they post?

If my potential client had taken the time to look at the gallery on my website, he would have seen dates associated with my photos.

He would have known that I update my photos every 6-8 weeks.

By doing a little bit of research, you can get a clear picture of whether you're dealing with an established professional or not.

If you're dealing with a professional, you can reasonably assume that submitting to whatever screening process they have will be safe for you.

It makes no sense for a professional (career) sex worker to threaten your position in life (work or personal).

If our clients get outed, we lose all our business!

Some sex workers participate in the industry as a side job. They don't make a career out of it. 

They might be amazing providers but do not have a huge internet presence, so clearly these rules don't always apply.

And, of course, there are sex workers who are mostly amazing but also may be a little unstable and this is a human problem that is present in every walk of life.

If they have an internet presence, you can usually get a sense of their personality.

A predator posing as a sex worker is unlikely to post a website or other ways you can find them on the Internet. 

A predator is more likely to have little, if any, internet presence.

Asian Massage Parlours

A lot of my clients have expressed concern about Asian massage parlours having trafficked women working in them.

In my experience, this is NOT the case.

First of all, opening a store-front massage parlour is a whole fucking MIND-BOGGLING process.

Owners of parlours must jump through hoops most other business owners DO NOT have to jump through.

They are also monitored religiously by local police forces. Most police officers also believe Asian sex workers are trafficked.

Because this is unlikely, the police are really over-monitoring massage parlours (in my opinion). 

Overzealous monitoring scares clients away and makes massage parlour workers more desperate, more likely to take less respectful clients and also more susceptible to poverty.

A massage parlour owner would be taking a huge risk to allow an underage or trafficked woman to work in their parlour. 

A number of years ago, I participated in a project where we interviewed sex workers on and off street all over BC about violence and trafficking.

Part of our project involved having our questionnaire translated into Chinese and interviewing Asian massage parlour workers.

None of the interviewees claimed to be trafficked. 

A huge fear they had was being arrested because their even bigger fear was being outed to their families.

The results...?

Asian sex workers in massage parlours are (for the most part) just like me - they are working for a living and to support their families. 

They choose the work and they lead double lives.

I've heard some clients say that the women they've met in Asian massage parlours "don't really seem into it."

I can't really speak to that because I have no idea, but I am personally acquainted with an Asian massage parlour owner. She used to do sex work herself. 

She tells the providers she hires to offer quality experiences and nurture regulars. 

This leads me to believe that different parlours (as well as different providers within the parlours) offer different experiences.

How can you recognize exploitation or human trafficking?

(This info is taken from The Naked Truth.)

Human trafficking or exploitation is not always obvious and sometimes difficult to identify. 

There are some basic signs that we can share so you can make an assessment of the safety of the provider you are visiting:
  • the worker seems too young
  • the worker seems scared
  • the worker has visible bruises
  • the worker is tied up or otherwise seems unwilling to perform the service
  • someone else collects the money on behalf of the worker
  • the work location/ incall space is overly dirty or unkempt
  • the worker seems overly tired
  • the worker is physically assaulted in front of you

These signs may or may not be related to human trafficking or exploitation. 

If you are unsure, wait until it's safe and ask the worker directly if they are alright and if they need help. 

If it does not feel safe to ask the worker, the best bet is to leave and cancel the appointment. 

After you leave and depending on your level of comfort, please report what you saw. 

Exploitation and human trafficking have no place in our industry and make us all look bad.

There are several ways you can report which will respect your confidentiality and ensure you are not outed as a sex industry client:
  • Call Crime Stoppers – it's confidential – 1-800-222-8477
  • Call the Counter Exploitation Unit or your local police service – if you are comfortable – they may ask for your personal information.
  • Contact ME! I am a member of The Naked Truth Support Team and we will take your report to police so your confidentiality is protected. (

Screening Clients

Above I shared some screening techniques for clients when they are looking for a professional provider.

These are not hard and fast rules but good practices for clients who are worried about what they're going to find when they arrive.

For me, it's not so easy.

Clients are reluctant to share their identity with me because of the laws and out of fear that they will be outed and lose their jobs or create strife in their marriages.

I understand why they feel this way and want to respect their need for anonymity. 

After all, I don't work using my real name. I get it.

However, sex workers are easy targets for predators. 

I'm being very specific with my use of the term "predator." 

There are lots of clients who push boundaries but they accept no as an answer when it is given (repeatedly). I would say that these are annoying or even "shitty" clients, some of them.

But they are not predators in the sense I am talking about in this article.

I'm talking about the guys who don't respect "no."

From what I've learned from other sex workers who've been assaulted, there is sometimes a pattern. 

The predator poses as a client and is respectful at first, building trust with the provider.

Then he becomes more aggressive in subsequent appointments. He may also use email or text to harass the worker after she stops seeing him.

Those are the guys that I at least have a chance with. I can refuse them in the future if I get any kind of negative vibe off them.

But there are also predators who will show up intending to rob or harm me the first time they see me.

How can I protect myself from these individuals?

Well, there are security measures I can take, of course.

Checking in with a security person, panic buttons, having a friend present in another room. 

Even taking such precautions, I'd rather weed out the predators before they get inside my workspace.

This is where screening comes into play.

Until now, I have done my screening mostly by intuition, to be honest.

I am quite ruthless.

The majority of people who contact me, I don't even answer.

I won't delve into details because I do not want to teach any predators how to fool me.

And it's not always easy to catch the signs right away. 

But for the most part, I have used simple screening measures (name, introduction) and intuition for screening clients in the past.

But things have changed for me.

A previous client who was very creepy in person, and I refused to see him again, has re-surfaced.

This person is more than likely a subscriber to my email list and may be reading this article right now.

He has changed emails and phone numbers since he originally contacted me and sent harassing messages.

He has inspired me to change the way I screen new clients.

I will now require a face selfie prior to a first time booking.

When new clients arrive for their massage, I will ensure they look like the photo sent before I will allow them into my space.

Also, where I have been somewhat lax in my security measures in the past, I will now be more stringent.

That does not mean new clients will be vulnerable or exposed when visiting me. Only that I have measures in place if a client becomes violent.

I know this will comfort some of my regulars who worry about me.

It means a lot that you care about my safety!

My Safety Benefits My Clients

For respectful, awesome clients; keeping sex workers safe should be a priority.

If I am assaulted, it's not just a really bad day.

It could mean the end of my profession.

Right now, I fucking LOVE my job.

Can you imagine if I was assaulted and all of a sudden my job became a source of anxiety and a threat to me?

How could I do it?

Here's a little story...

I must have done thousands of private shows when I was stripping before ONE DUDE crossed the line and assaulted me.

It was not violent. It was not invasive. 

But it was unexpected. It was against the rules I had explained to him before the dance. And I felt very violated.

I never did another purely free, unbridled, sexy private dance again.

I went from loving the hustle and making mad money to taking almost a year off from doing private shows, and never feeling quite safe again.

Protecting my safety also protects my income source because it protects my love for this work.

The Moral of the Story

This has been a long (hopefully educational) and serious article.

It is the most serious blog post I've ever written for my readers.

The moral of the story is that sex workers have good reason to use screening methods to prevent predators from hurting us.

If clients are thoughtful about who they hire, they should feel comfortable sharing the info their chosen provider requires.

Clients are in a privileged position to report exploitation in the sex industry when they encounter it.

Reports can be made confidentially and sex workers want you to help keep our industry safe.

And finally, thank you to regulars and new clients who are willing to trust that I will respect their privacy and who treat me with the respect a classy woman deserves.

NOW, I have a request!

Please send me an email or text to tell me what you thought of this article.

Were you expecting something fun and the seriousness disappointed you?

Is this the kind of information that interests you?

Is there anything I missed that you wonder about relating to this topic?

I really want your feedback.

It will help me decide if I will write on serious topics occasionally in the future.

I prefer the lighthearted, sexy, naughty, boner-inducing articles... but is a serious topic once in awhile appreciated?

I want your honest opinion. I will not be offended. 

In the meantime, I am thinking of many of you while I touch myself!

Thank you for making me horny! Keep sending those sexy messages!

Love Annie

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