Christmas is coming...
...and so am I!
(as often as possible!)
I'm working extra hours before Christmas because Mama's gotta put presents under the tree.
I truly appreciate my clients who are continuing to see me through the holiday season!
Personal services are still legally allowed and I am following disinfecting procedures religiously!
You can expect a sexy, safe, relaxing, arousing, intimate (and maybe even passionate) sensual massage from a petite woman resembling an elf. ;)
(but I am short!)
My Christmas Wish List:
- Peace on Earth
- Orgasms for all Men (and women)
- A peaceful government takeover ;)
- White Wine, Vodka, Doobies (LOL)
- Donations towards Christmas Presents for my kids
- To hear from or see all of my favourite clients in the next four weeks.
Is that too much to ask for?
Please send me your Christmas Wish List - the naughty one! I love hearing about your horny, sexy, fantasies.
Next week you'll hear about a very naughty experience I had recently! Don't miss it!
And now for this week's confession...I mean...article. xoxoxo
Do sex workers fall for our clients?
Of course we do!
We don't make a habit of dating the people we provide services to. And we don't go looking for partners at work.
But sometimes feelings happen.
Sometimes a super sexy, incredible fondness develops for each other.
We are intimate with each other.
Over time, we develop a sort of no-strings-attached kind of attachment to each other.
And SOMETIMES we even fall IN LOVE.
My first experience with this was when I met my oldest daughter's dad at the Fraser Arms stripclub.
We hit it off immediately and spent the next 4.5 years together.
However, he became very jealous and angry about my job.
It became a constant fight and he even got kicked out of the Golden Ears stripclub near the end of our relationship because he was drunk and harassing me while I was on shift.
(It was so embarrassing!)
My current boyfriend was also a strip club customer when I was selling massages there.
We never plan for it to happen when we fall for someone.
It just happens.
When there is chemistry, conversation, and an easy connection... it's hard NOT to fall in love with a sexy, wonderful client!
But is this a bad thing? I don't think so.
I firmly believe we, as humans, can love more than one person at a time.
Mating for life is a tradition and many of us even long for it. But is monogamy natural? For that matter, does loving another person diminish the love I have for my chosen partner?
I think monogamy can be natural for some people some of the time. But many of us realize as we get older that monogamy can also feel like a slow crawl towards death.
I also think that loving more than one person does not diminish my love for any of them.
I have three children I would die for. My love for each of them is different but equally profound. Loving one does not diminish my love for another.
So, why do humans seem bent on believing that love is something to be hoarded and given only to that one perfect someone who allows us to control and own them and their sexuality and everything to do with who they are as a person?
We don't have that right. No one has that right over another.
In my opinion, the best part of living is loving. Therefore I give my love freely and I'm honoured to accept it too.
LOVE IS ALL WE NEED!
I definitely have a client or two that I'm in love with.
They are the ones I can't wait to see again. The ones I get excited when I see their text messages. They are the ones I fantasize about when I touch myself.
They are a beautiful reminder of what can exist between two people who love each other with no strings attached.
One life to live, friends.
Live it to the fullest.
LIVE IN LOVE!
I know I am.
Text or Email today!